Reviving a loveless relation ~

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Re: Reviving a loveless relation ~

@AbraCadabra

I don’t think we are both there. We will be marrying and we do suit each other but both of us are hell scared for our prospects. I know when we will be together it will be fine, Insha Allah and will be good actually. But the time till then is a scary road. We are both waiting for the time to pass quietly so that when we are together it will be fine. For now, when you are distances apart a million issues tend to come due to long distance specially the mis-communications due to the mode of communication we adopt.

Right now its a confusing yet dry period.

I am in the exact same situation as you :-/ except I’m nikkah-ed although it might as well be an engagement because he is in Pk and I’m in the states so we only talk on the phone or iphone msgs and see each other once a year. Wedding is not until end of next year so until then its a huge test of patience. We also get into a lot of arguments and fights to the point where sometimes there doesn’t seem to be any light at the end of the tunnel but when things calm down I realize its all because of the long distance because the cause of the fights is stupid.

The fights and arguments do ruin a relationship before it is given a fair chance. Basically its being in a relationship but without any of the good things associated with it like being there for each other and taking care of each other. Basically…its just a big mess and I would never recommend long distance to anyone