why some people put negative aspects of their personalities in front of you?
they will literally reveal that how bad they are?
and if a guy tells this to a girl that they are very kameenay (these exact words) what exactly they are thinking?
do they think that girls like macho personalities or is it like they want the girl not to talk to them?
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It means ... "thank you very much and bye bye" :)
But sometimes it also means ... "I am spoiled brat .. fix me" ... exploiting women motherly instincts.
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:D
haha...and what about us girls, if we have this typa attitude?
Jaan choor pai :D
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I think if a girl tell u something like that than it means ... "I am spoiled enough , don't expect anything" :D
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^^^^some gal said to me the same kinda thingg... jst a day bfore ... :D
Hey Zobi,
It depends on the situation and the AGE of the guy. The younger guys might deliberately (purposely) project a "bad-boy"....."ghunda" ....."misfit"....."rebel".......personality in order to attract the ladies. Or it could also be that the younger guys want to look "cool" or fit in with the "cool" crowd. Or..........that could simply just be their NATURAL personality. Maybe that's just how they are. Maybe they can't help being aggressive/tactless/reckless/brash. Maybe the home environment they were raised in was dysfunctional and promoted such behavior.
For the more OLDER guys.....who are more mature.......perhaps they are showing a girl their true colors as a way of being honest. For example, a desi guy might choose to be honest about his unsavory past (drinking, sleeping around)..........because he feels that it's better if the girl hears the truth from him as opposed to finding out the truth from others in the community....and then accusing him of "hiding" things about himself. OR in rare cases...a few guys.....tell a girl about their bad habits to purposely turn her off.
It's not only guys, Zobi. Some women can be like that. Sometimes, women can be shamelessly catty. I've even seen Aunties who will make such absurd and offensive comments without the slightest thought about the audience....or even how their words might be percieved. And some aunties will commit their verbal blunders time and time and time and time again. Pretty soon, you begin to notice a pattern and you come to the conclusion that either the woman is totally clueless or she's being catty/condescending on purpose.
It's not only aunties. I've even seen young women.....lose control and say horrible things. Some tend to lose control more often than others. Some like to engage in cunning/manipulative behavior. And you wonder..........."Do they CHOOSE to show themselves in a negative light?"
I think ALL OF US have lost control of our tempers.......and revealed our dark side or ugly side to family members/friends/co-workers/acquaintaces/even strangers. But.....some people.......display negative behavior more frequently than others. Why? I don't know. Could be stress........a naturally short temper/fuse.............or YOU'VE DONE SOMETHING TO OFFEND THE PERSON AND THEY FINALLY DECIDE TO LET YOU HAVE IT.............or bipolar disorder..........etc etc etc. (Could be a slew of causes).
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me finks perhaps he's trying to say he's crap in the sack and she should make haste whilst she still can. :@:
:D
haha...and what about us girls, if we have this typa attitude?
Jaan choor pai :D
what do u mean? depends on what she says.. cud be "rescue me, for i am insecure and need a man to complete my life" or it means "this is who i am, take it or leave it"...
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Why don't you just ask him what it means?
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who would ever say that and why and what does it even mean. so much in life 1 is being lost in translation pour moi
why some people put negative aspects of their personalities in front of you? they will literally reveal that how bad they are?
and if a guy tells this to a girl that they are very kameenay (these exact words) what exactly they are thinking?
do they think that girls like macho personalities or is it like they want the girl not to talk to them?
it means "mujh se bach ker reho verna utha ker lay jaoon ga" yea its a warning for u. tell him"kehnay ki zarorat nahin, wo tu tum shakal se lagtay he ho" then run for ur life. change school, college, city , country.... watever :@:
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This means he wants the girl say "oh nahiii ap to aise nahi hain" bla bla
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It basically means that , that’s exactly how he is and he has absolutely no intention of improving , take it or leave it.
Unfortunately girls think they can fix these guys that are beyond repair and end up marrying them and then get to hear , " I told you i was like this before we got hitched , now live with it " and they have no one to blame but themselves !
If a girl says it then she is a spoilt brat and won’t adjust or compromise eaither.
Bottom line any person that says that they have negative traits and isn’t willing to do anything about them but expects people to accept them anyway should be shown the door 
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Dr sheyn is 100% right