Responsibilities of a Mother

Re: Responsibilities of a Mother

And the men who go out to earn are coming back home to become exemplary leaders as examples for their kids right. There is no such thing as a guy who goes to spend the weekend with his buddies watching the game, or playing golf. Most ‘working’ men come home and actually sit down with their kids to teach them salat, or tell them stories right?

There is no difference between the men of the yester years who subjugated their women, treated them like crap, made them have 16 kids, and let her handle all the ‘homely’ responsibilities. Oh no wait the only difference is that they wore dhoti kameez, worked on the fields and spoke punjabi while you speak and type in english. The mentality remains the same.

If Kids were solely the responsibility of the ‘WOMAN’ as you think then Islam would not give over the custody of the kid to the father after a certain age. If the home was solely the responsibility of the woman, and it was her job in this world only to cook, clean, serve her husband and then give birth to kids and then ‘serve’ them 24/7 then Rasool Allah (sallalahu alaihee wassalam) would not have mended his own clothes, helped out in the household. Then Usman Ghani (radhi Allahu taala unhu) would not have come home from a hard day at work and made dinner for his mother.