he really doesnt get it… completely missed the point of your post.
My mum worked for a good 11 years when we migrated here to help my dad… and my dad’s the first to say that if my mum hadnt worked, he doesnt know how we would have done it. She worked crazy hours… but came home every evening to make us fresh dinner… EVERY night… i dont recall a day where we didnt have food or care.