Re: reluctant husbands!!
I agree. If he was serious he would not get mad or defensive when you brought up the marriage topic.
Re: reluctant husbands!!
Its better to lose a lover than to love a loser ...
At the end of the day, there is no satisfaction knwing you had to play mind games, to test him to see if hes gonna do what he should...like everyone said before...theres nothing holding him back, when a guy wants something, he'll do whatever he can to get it....
Re: reluctant husbands!!
Why will he be coming alone to your home in Lahore?? Surely to ask for your hand in marriage he should come with his parents?
When me and my fiance got together we agreed to tell our parents at the same time, which we did 4 months into the relationship, and when we were both ready to settle down he came to my house along WITH his family to ask for my rishta.
It would appear a little odd for him to come alone no??
Re: reluctant husbands!!
Please dont waste your time. You will be even more upset if you continue to buy his stories and then realize you should have just gone with your gut instinct.
I think you already know where this is headed.
Re: reluctant husbands!!
I think straight question would do it.. ask him.. if he sees you in his life in future... if he is not sure... probably you should move on.. if he says yes.. ask him how long? and as what?
goodluck