Ok so i am confused here…even though your problem is sorted out…but i have one question you said its a long distance relationship for now, so is it like you’re in London and he is in Pakistan or Karachi to Lahore? and if that’s i.e. long distance is the case then how does he bring in food for you? lol sorry…i am just confused and curious…but hope everything turns out the way you want it to be :).
hey everyone…i just wanted to ask if anyone had an experience of a boyfriend or guy u liked who was reluctant to marry early even if he has a job?
my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 yrs and mashallah it has been amazing…we get along amazingly well mashallah and are crazy abt each other…even better he is very sweet and very very caring…even after 2 years together he’s the type to pick up food on a weeknight at 3 am because i’m hungry…and bring it to my place which is a 30 min drive from his…lol…i’m very lucky mashallah…and we are both agreed on the fact that we do not want to marry young and in fact want to wait until we’re both settled and can afford a nice house and stuff…lol…but the thing is that i am not moving back to pakistan from london and we will be in a long distance relationship and his family lives in karachi while mine lives in lahore so even when he visits we wont be able to spend much time together which is a huge contrast from now…where we spend a lot of time together…mashallah we get along very well and love each others company…
long distance is hard so i suggested to him recently that maybe we shud think abt getting married in a year or 2. because the thing is he has been working for 5 yrs now and owns a house and car and stuff and lives a very comfortable life…its a different thing to support a wife but hez doing well enough that it wont be very hard…mashallah…i’m not interested in getting married soon but i have also seen lots of relationships destroyed because of it…his response to my suggestion was very negative and he took it very badly saying that we had an agreement not to get married soon etc…we actually fought abt it…
i’m not worried abt the fact that he wont marry me soon because i’m in no hurry but i’m a little worried abt the strong way he reacted…i wanted to know if anyone out there has had a similar expereince and shud i be worried…because i dont want to be in a relationship which has no future or someone who is not as committed as i am…i know that this guy is the man i wanna marry but i dont want to stay with him if he is so reluctant!! so plz any experiences???