Re: Religious Perversion by a Preacher pedophilie marriage
There will always be exceptions, but a girl who has not experienced more than 10 years on this earth is not ready to commit herself to a life long relationship with an older man who DOES have experience and knowledge - hopefully enough that he will choose an adult to spend the rest of his life with.
A 10 year old doesn't know what she wants out of life and is not able to make the decision of what and with whom to do the rest of her life. Humans aren't like animals - they take many, many years to fully develop. Not just physicially, but their likes, dislikes, emotional, psychologicay and spiritual development.
And why in the world would a man want to marry a girl who he doesn't even know? Heck, he can't, she doesn't know herself at 10 years old. If she doesn't have guardians and he is concerned about her well being, why wouldn't he adopt her instead of marry her? Unless he wants a slave for his whole life and not just the time it takes her to grow up and move out.
Now where is the line drawn at what is a child? I'm not sure that can be universally applied, but it sure isn't at 10 years old.
Peace Seminole
How about 11 years old or 12 or 13 years?
Or I know .... how about when they start their menses? Or even better perhaps that they have been menstruating for at least one year. That would give them time to understand their hormones. According to the rule of thumb in Islam. Half or so of our responsibilities fall upon us when we are 7, some come in when we become physically mature and the rest postage and packaging are more or less complete by the age of 14, greater or fewer responsibilities are governed by marriage status.
A mature girl who has the conscious mind powerful and decisive enough to make the decision of leaving her parents home and joining another in his home is a mature girl who is also mentally capable of making the choice to marry and have sexual relations.
The girl who is afraid of leaving her parents home and does not want to live in another mans home will never agree to marriage, whereby Islamically no one can touch her sexually either. There comes a point in a girls life where she will not just be accepting of leaving the nest, but quite desire the option of it. The comparison being made by assaults on the incapable girls as compared to marriages by similar aged girls who are powerful enough to decide for marriage is a deceptive one.