Peace diwana
I really was only talking about the same thing.
You said:
Tolerance is all that is required for unity.
Acceptance of difference I can understand but acceptance of different act is not required.
One does not need acceptance for unity and certainly not possible for everyone to be same.
The post that you replied to agrees with this perhaps you didn't see it. Here it is again.
Peace diwana
The political position of unity is as you say it is, that it is the collective movement despite difference of perspective.
I see this as the required starting point and nothing more than this is required,
However, I was talking on another level when I made this statement
but our intents should be more than tolerance, rather we should accept each other on difference and want to be the same.
To tolerate others means that our biases make us dislike others but we learn to rise above those biases. However, to accept them is to love them or have love for them. When I used the word accept I meant it in the sense of being Muslims or atleast as honest people who are trying to find the truth like ourselves.
The level higher than acceptance of others is that a secret wish exists for those who we love that either they become like us or we become like them in order for even greater unity, this is not required, but it is a perspective that we inherently desire for those who we love.
You asked:
First: The question of thread as I understand is about unity with people and flexibility among people's mind as per religious teachings. Not the **Unity **you mentioned. So I do not know if and why we need to discuss this.
I was merely clarifying my previous post which included a motto "To Unity we aspire, United we go" And we don't need to discuss it. I mentioned in my note so I was not misunderstood.
So to summarise you asked:
*Why should one become same as other person to have unity???? *
I really have problem with green part. That is like if someone wants to pray three times based on Quranic verses alone (other person's view, right or wrong) I should pray three times too in order to be united? Just one example.
Please explain your point of view since I am not sure if green part of your post is valid at all.
To be like is a hidden desire in us all.
The red part is not what I am saying. I am not saying that rather what I am saying is the well known Qur'anic verse which is come to common terms, which is to identify the areas where we are the same and if need be work out a way where differences can be reconciled and if they can't then to accept the difference in trust and respect for one another.
So if one person wants to pray only 3 times a day and we see that 5 is necessary what we do is at least acknolwedge that prayer is considered by the 3 times a day people. Then to work out how to proceed. Likewise they do the same for us. Eventually we should only DESIRE that either one party conforms to the other or there is a compromise between the two but only if the goods outweigh the bads. Otherwise to at least as a last resort after trying nicely to be the same to accept each other for the differences.