Religious girl vs. the Mod girl...

arshad5 · August 1, 2006, 10:04am

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I wonder if my beloved is modern no…I will change that to westernised or religious…or if she is somewhere in between:confused:

ashtray · August 1, 2006, 10:38am

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Sharaabi · August 1, 2006, 10:48am

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Yes, Lajawaab, since thou was a musician before, you shalt not be believed ever, for thou art a hypocrite.

How dare you be a musician before and now the mullah you are.

fghd · August 1, 2006, 11:54am

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Talking from experience here Lajjo and I must say even though your writing is perfect in this thread BUT ur generalization just screwed everything. I have been a hijaabi and a non-hijaabi in mylife and I experienced from both sides of the page. I have seen Hijabi girls who cover themselves properly and avoid talking to guys and are good muslims and I have ALSO seen muslim girls who dress properly and don't wear hijaab who are into make-up and are classy but yet STILL know their religion more than so-called religious women.

There is a variety of different defination of 'MOD' girls that you just can't sit and type saying that Mod girls are for sure not good enuff to be a good wife compare to religious ones. Rest only Allah is the one who can judge on one's real faith.

How do u know that hijabi u r seeing outside walking prays five times compare to the one who don't cover herself properly. Its really easy to point on those who appears not too fit according to the picture that we sketch in our minds rather the ones who does stuff behind the screens.

Sara516 · August 1, 2006, 12:16pm

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Puchi Kuchi:

Guys I think LAJJO was speaking about religious practising girls as opposed to those who are indifferent and not on that journey.

It isn’t about hijaab or beard or anything like that because what Sara mentioned is correct we cannot solely judge someone based on the fact that they have a beard or wear a hijaab.

I think he is correct. Let me put myself in his shoes and think as a woman what would I prefer.

(A) A normal muslim guy desi who is educated with a great career, good looks, nice family (plenty of them going round)

(B) A practising grounded muslim man who is involved in the community, has deen in his heart, prays regularly, seeks islamic knowledge, wants to abide by the halal and the haraam, makes decisions using islam as a guideline bot morally and ethically, who wants to bring his children up in an islamic environment, and so forth.

As a woman I would want to go for option B. Because I know that in the long run It will be more beneficial for me and he will make the better husband by far. Option A has everything but option B has much more to offer, I call it the X factor. The passion for deen, the love for ALLAH swt, the greed for knowledge is an extremely attractive attribute in someone and I guess that’s what LAJJO means when he says religious vs non- religious.

Oh and we are moulded by our views, our opinions and our eemaan, the hijaab and the beard come much later. The base of the person is inside. Yes Hijaab and beard are definately mandatory but then what is the point of having the outside without the inside?

You’re right, but unfortunately this all went into another hijabi vs nonhijabi debate, with ignoranamuses judging nonhijabi girls as bad Muslims and sluts..

malhot · August 1, 2006, 12:21pm

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Lajjo bhai admits that with age, his opinons have changed.
Well so do the rest of the worlds - the same girl who may be hep in youth, may with age change.

Infact we all change with age- we become more god fearing and religious.
The unlucky ones - are the one's who aged without self analysis. (ie brain washed)

Femme_Fatale · August 1, 2006, 12:26pm

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LJ u have always been blinded by your generalisations, nothing has changed really, you still go by appearances.

Fayz · August 1, 2006, 12:35pm

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..appearances and preconceived ideas.

I'm glad you found religion to channel your hate somewhere. Very spiritual soul indeed.

Lajawab · August 1, 2006, 12:38pm

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Why is the whole thread turned to Hijab vs. Non-Hijab?

I was talking about religious...It can include those who just observe chaddar or those who observe Burqa...

Hijab does not necessarily mean religious...Religious means someone who does not wear make-up, does not believe in dating, does not believe in uneccessary men and women mingling e.t.c....

Just a few things that defines a Muslim woman...Why did this turn into a Hijab vs. non-Hijab thread?

fghd · August 1, 2006, 12:39pm

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u mean out in public?

Mehnaz · August 1, 2006, 12:40pm

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We can split it if you want. I actually did split it into a hijab v. non-hijabi thread but I figured they were all related anyway.

Sara516 · August 1, 2006, 12:42pm

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I dunno it just did

Lajawab · August 1, 2006, 12:47pm

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Yup…

ashtray · August 1, 2006, 1:00pm

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good post Lajawab.

Afridi786 · August 1, 2006, 1:02pm

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You girls didn't know your not suppose to wear makeup in public?

Ex-Guppan · August 1, 2006, 1:06pm

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So for women being religious is what makes them all beautiful and graceful, right? and those who do not wear make-up and do not date or believe in men/women mingling. So what about men? What makes them graceful? religion? not mingling up with women? or anything else?

P.S. Emm good post :thumb:

let-me-say-this · August 1, 2006, 1:07pm

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Originally Posted by Lajawab
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And I have discovered the beauty that the veil hides…The softness of speech, the humility of the soul, the eloquence of the words, the depth of perception, the wisdom behind the acts and the devotion and loyalty of the spirit…
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Not only brilliant but the time concept. Man it is so freakin true. Mind is a cruel
gift. Sadly women are more gullible more susceptible to fantasy thus more
women loose sight of simplicity and head towards modernity Cant blame GOD
for that but MEN. They have to rein them teach them patiently and yes more
women are hell bound but a lot men will follow suit as well.

Corrupt mind is an irreversible process - women become victim to the fame
and fortune and aspiration of freedom and prefer single life over married one.
Westernization of Japan has resulted in freedom where women are now yes
refusing to marry yes - Scandinavia went through that but reversed the trend
GOD help this world - i blame men for not being able to control their women
their daughters and their homes. Want to destroy a culture a nation a land a
home well I dont wana say it because I will piss a lot of women off so I’ll keep
a lid on my lips. but women aa gift from heaven to MEN watch it..

Afridi786 · August 1, 2006, 1:11pm

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So what about men? What makes them graceful? religion? not mingling up with women? or anything else?
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lol...men can be graceful?

let-me-say-this · August 1, 2006, 1:11pm

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this should be about modernity
not Hijab vs non hijab

Ex-Guppan · August 1, 2006, 1:12pm

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So for women being religious is what makes them all beautiful and graceful, right? and those who do not wear make-up and do not date or believe in men/women mingling. So what about men? What makes them graceful? religion? not mingling up with women? or anything else?

P.S. Emm good post :thumb: