Religious girl vs. the Mod girl...

There was a time in my life when I envisioned having a wife who mod, dressed classy, wore the best make up and was overall a showpiece to be paraded around in front of others…

Religious women never appealed to me…How could they, especially to a musician, like I used to be…

I envisioned my Mod woman wife to be full of grace and class and charm and wit and glamour and suave chit chat…I reckoned intimacy with them would be one of a kind, with nights draped in red satin and winds cooled by the heat of our passions…I envisioned the Mod woman to be so lucid in our relation that to hold her would be to drown oneself in amorous rapture and the results of our love’s labours would be everlasting bliss…

And I envisioned the religious women to be someone harsh, illiterate, hard of heart and passions, rigid and frigid in her love and uncomprosing in her passions…Smelly, dirty with not a soft spot to nibble upon..

Time, however, is a jack…It is a great weightlifting equipment able to lift the lids off your eyes…

I have discovered that the Mod woman is a wench…A shrew…Nothing drives her impulses except her desire to be fulfilled for herself…Unforgiving, unrelenting, unhappy, what most people find to shut these types of women up is to fill their mouths with money ot have nothing to do with them at all…Just leave them to do whatever the heck they wish…Even then there is no guarantee that her blind and voracious appetite for self satisfaction will guarantee a happy home…Manipulative, egotistical, unhappy, uncompromising and ignorant about the tiny nuances that make a house, she is an emotional wrecking machine…

And I have discovered the beauty that the veil hides…The softness of speech, the humility of the soul, the eloquence of the words, the depth of perception, the wisdom behind the acts and the devotion and loyalty of the spirit…

truly, in ignorance man is always attracted to the ignorant…Not saying that I have become wise or smart, but it’s an epiphany that has made me realise that knowledge is indeed what makes the heart moist with wisdom and love…

But it all comes down to knowing what it is that makes something as such…Like we say in Urdu, “Bandar kia jaanay adrak ka maza…”

What does a monkey know about the taste of ginger…It is a delicacy of an acquired taste…

Total devotion is incomparably priceless…

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So a religious woman can't dress classy, wear nice makeup, be full of grace and charm and wit? :p

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ya why can;t a woman be both?

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It's either or Ramsha. No in between.

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Lajo, give it some more years; you will realize that it’s not about you or what you want all the time.

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religous girls all the way..... don,t like girls who follow customs of pagans and are proud of it too.:) ..i like girls who wear headscarf aur jin main sharem hiya ho and not girls who are muslim just by name and do illicit things and have no shame in telling others how many crushes/bf she had.....:o ........

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Fair enough.

But when you start saying that a woman who doesn't wear a scarf, or works after she has children, or travels the world alone, or goes out at night with her friends, or has no problems talking to guys about school or work, or anything that does not fit into your definition of "proper" is a "mod" woman , and therefore "a wench" in your eyes, that's judgemetnal and pure ignorance.

The type of woman you described, she can be found anywhere, wearing anything (yes, including scarf/abaya/niqab), living anywhere (pakistan, USA, Middle east), going to school, working, or staying home and watching television or cooking salan. Although I'm guessing that wasn't your intent, what you've described is a very abstract concept, that can fit anyone, any time any where.

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Excellent Post Lajawab but kinda worthless since majority of guppies r "moderate" muslim girls.

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arrai baba issi liye to hadith main hai kai hell main ziyada auratein hoon gey:) .....

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lol…watch all the women come out and say that Islam opresses women and then sends them to hell…how barbaric and how sexist…:halo:

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Simply brilliant :k:

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thats true I agree with you :k:

I have seen some very sweet girls wearing hijabs and I also know some who dont wear hijab. it depends on how her heart is…and good/pure and evil/corrupt hearts can be found both in hijabis and non hijabis

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maybe i should edit it before they see it......lol:D. .....

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whats your definition of "moderate"?

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Majority of the Muslim girls who post here KNOW that islam does NOT oppress and in fact gives women thier rights, but that it’s patriarchal societies that does that.

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the ones who talk about their fiances, mentioned they wear skirts (doesnt matter it cuda been long, the automatic assumption is, "SKIRT!! :eek: ") and openly talk to guys on here.. and oh yeah, western born and bred :stuck_out_tongue:

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0oke let me ask girls just 1 question.....tell me what kind of impression will a guy get when he sees a muslim woman in
headscarf and a muslim woman who doesn,t wear it:) ?

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Hijabi: Guy 1 will see the hijabi girl as someone who feels she's too ugly to reveal her face and has no beuaty to display. Guy 2 will see her as someone who is pure and wonderful and all that is clean and beautiful in this dirty world. And guy 3 --the normal, sane one--will think she's simply practicing one aspect of her faith, respects her and moves on :p

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well no a muslim guy will get the impression 1 is a devout muslim and other is a slut or in anyway not a good muslim:halo: …

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Actually, I was going to split these into two threads ... but we don't need it. My bad. Will merge them. Sowwy.