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u are muslim but not good 1 cuz good 1 wear hijab:halo: …
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lol, oooh someone can see right through a computer screen.
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it was regards to my previous reply:) …app ko nahi keh raha tha …i don,t even know u :halo:…even if knew u its non of my business:) …
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User NamePostshussain87 27Impulse 18Afridi786 17K4plan 16Sara516 14Your enthusiasm is appreciated however let others particiapte as well such that their points are not lost in the flood. It will only improve the quality of the forum. Thank you
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guys are animals even in pak when my aunt(she is more like our sister) went to college we had to go with her cuz there were a lot of guys who stands around the street corner and flirt and stare at woman who are passing that street.it just boil my blood why can,t these moron understand that these girls are some1 daughter/mother and sister:mad: …but still that doesn,t mean girls have to quit wearing hijab.
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not all hijabis are perfect and not all non-hijabes are wenches and vice-versa
if a person does hijab i gess that does make thm a better follower of islam bcuz hijab is an obligation in islam
but we never know wats in ones heart and y there not doing sometihng or y they are doing it
each person is different and ALlah knows best...arguing isnt gonna help cuz we all hv our own views
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Lajawab,
Is this your way of telling us you’re engaged/married (I’m assuming that’s how you’ve managed to look beyond the veil of a religious/modest woman)? Congratulations! 
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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww this is certainly turning into a sweet and wonderful summer for all of us!! 
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boy have i got stories to tell then abt my uni days and a whole TOLA of hijabans in skin tight jeans, tops, 20tonz of makeup each and kissing as if there was no tomorrow. 
its really pathetic to see that ppl give so much importance to a piece of cloth while totally ignoring the person & her character.if that cloth is the only measure ur going to use to judge a person then why even bother to argue/discuss.ur mind is very much made up.might as well save us time and go start separating the white sheep from the black.hijab def is a good thing but that does’nt automatically make the person good or innocent.
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^yeh for u its a piece of cloth but for a true muslim its something which define a girl who is good muslim or muslim by just name :) ........
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define a so called TRUE MUSLIM [never mind a GIRL] and try to FIT hijab in that definition…shabash…zara lago haan kam te…:halo:
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Knock knock… wake up brother… Khol Aankh zameen dekh, falak dekh… and stop generalizing
Just the other day I came across a website, where a girl was very scantilly dressed and the title was, “hey, Hijaabis have feelings too”. Then I went to a gathering, where I actually saw that girl in perfect hijaab, and I learnt that her mom and dad hold prestigious positions in the Islamic community. I was in complete shock. I looked at her face, she was hardly 13-14 yrs old and then I remembered seeing her half naked pic on the web. I so much wanted to go tell her parents to open their eyes and know what their biaatch daughter was doing … sigh but I controlled my anger. What a future of our next Muslim generation.
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I think it's time you really make a genuine effort to see the world thru unbiased lenses. Again, pls. don't generalize. I am a muslim girl, I do not wear hijaab but I would want to marry a guy who's religious, more religious than me, so that I could learn more from him. I am educated, studied and lived abroad, travelled the world on my own, yet being a muslim and practising Islam.
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Religious women never appealed to me...How could they, especially to a musician, like I used to be...
I envisioned my Mod woman wife to be full of grace and class and charm and wit and glamour and suave chit chat...I reckoned intimacy with them would be one of a kind, with nights draped in red satin and winds cooled by the heat of our passions...I envisioned the Mod woman to be so lucid in our relation that to hold her would be to drown oneself in amorous rapture and the results of our love's labours would be everlasting bliss...
And I envisioned the religious women to be someone harsh, illiterate, hard of heart and passions, rigid and frigid in her love and uncomprosing in her passions...Smelly, dirty with not a soft spot to nibble upon..
Time, however, is a jack...It is a great weightlifting equipment able to lift the lids off your eyes...
I have discovered that the Mod woman is a wench...A shrew...Nothing drives her impulses except her desire to be fulfilled for herself...Unforgiving, unrelenting, unhappy, what most people find to shut these types of women up is to fill their mouths with money ot have nothing to do with them at all...Just leave them to do whatever the heck they wish...Even then there is no guarantee that her blind and voracious appetite for self satisfaction will guarantee a happy home...Manipulative, egotistical, unhappy, uncompromising and ignorant about the tiny nuances that make a house, she is an emotional wrecking machine...
And I have discovered the beauty that the veil hides...The softness of speech, the humility of the soul, the eloquence of the words, the depth of perception, the wisdom behind the acts and the devotion and loyalty of the spirit...
truly, in ignorance man is always attracted to the ignorant...Not saying that I have become wise or smart, but it's an epiphany that has made me realise that knowledge is indeed what makes the heart moist with wisdom and love...
But it all comes down to knowing what it is that makes something as such...Like we say in Urdu, "Bandar kia jaanay adrak ka maza..."
What does a monkey know about the taste of ginger...It is a delicacy of an acquired taste...
Total devotion is incomparably priceless...
Would you care to shed some more light? What is the definition of "Mod" and "Religious" for you NOW, since you already expained what it was in the past? To me your definition of Mod reflected a bcbg or a spoiled brat, a selfish, money lover, show-case girl. This may not be so for someone else.
I do appreciate you confessing how you used to think (rather mis-judge). But why can't a religious, educated, veiled woman be called modern? To me a modern woman would be (from an Islamic perspective, that's what I'm concerned about) an educated, smart woman, who knows her religion as well as the world around her and can practice religion while walk with the world with confidence. But I must confess, I did not always hold this view. My views were also shaped over time with education, knowledge, experience and people I came across/worked with. But one thing for sure, my religion was always the top priority for me and thank God in reaching my current views, I did not take a 180 degree turn.
Nevertheless, personal opinions, and preferences play a major role. Hasty generalizations should not be made, as they don't help, but rather aggravate and hurt others.
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u tell me how can a girl who doesn,t wear hijab be good muslim???
…as for hijabi girl doing haram things at their uni is bull**** and most of the time ppl who don,t follow islam use it to find execuses for their unislamic behaviour:D …any way a hijabi can be good muslim but a non hijabi can never be a good muslim simply u don,t follow whats written in quraan and then i see ppl saying we dressed modestly u tell me… is not wearing hijaab modestly?.. is wearing tons of makeup modestly so that guys find u attractive ?is it modestly to tell others how many bf u had without being ashamed?a nswer no… its beghairity and u can not change that …ofcourse ppl who tell the islamic point will become extremist in liberal folks eyes at this forum but that will not change the fact that its haram and only shameless ppl do these acts:halo: …
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Modesty******
Wearinf a hijab is required by a good muslim but a not every hijabi wearer will be a good muslim. Are you trying to use hijab as an excuse to cover up for all their other wrongdoings which go against the Quran? Hijab is a must as is so many other things, maybe a muslim doesn’t wear a hijab but also won’t go around exposing themselves just like a hijabi might do. You’re really getting confused with the fundamentals of being a good/proper Muslim.
Hijab isn’t the only representation of a true muslim, its their goodwill and intention.
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well u are the only 1 who want to marry a religious guy:o … most girls wouldn,t want to share their life with backward ppl in their eyes …they want some1 who isn,t that extreme , they want some1 who does let them watch bollywood and let them follow other paganic rituals:halo: …
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I stopped reading after Lajawab confessed he used to be a musician. Is Lajawab Junaid Jamshed????
JJ, my friend, please send me over some beautiful pieces from your latest women's kattan and khaddi fabric line.
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Guys I think LAJJO was speaking about religious practising girls as opposed to those who are indifferent and not on that journey.
It isn't about hijaab or beard or anything like that because what Sara mentioned is correct we cannot solely judge someone based on the fact that they have a beard or wear a hijaab.
I think he is correct. Let me put myself in his shoes and think as a woman what would I prefer.
(A) A normal muslim guy desi who is educated with a great career, good looks, nice family (plenty of them going round)
(B) A practising grounded muslim man who is involved in the community, has deen in his heart, prays regularly, seeks islamic knowledge, wants to abide by the halal and the haraam, makes decisions using islam as a guideline bot morally and ethically, who wants to bring his children up in an islamic environment, and so forth.
As a woman I would want to go for option B. Because I know that in the long run It will be more beneficial for me and he will make the better husband by far. Option A has everything but option B has much more to offer, I call it the X factor. The passion for deen, the love for ALLAH swt, the greed for knowledge is an extremely attractive attribute in someone and I guess that's what LAJJO means when he says religious vs non- religious.
Oh and we are moulded by our views, our opinions and our eemaan, the hijaab and the beard come much later. The base of the person is inside. Yes Hijaab and beard are definately mandatory but then what is the point of having the outside without the inside?