Re: Religious girl vs. the Mod girl...
you have created a monster lajawab..this debate is never ending..
and btw excellent writing skills
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Re: Religious girl vs. the Mod girl...
people, people......whether u choose to get to know ure partner before marriage or be it arranged, just hope u meet some1 who u can spend the rest of ure life with, it's about whats in their heart, not whats on their head, even the devil can cover his face, but he's still the devil, and an angel can misplace her hijab, but she still an angel.
Arguing with hussain87 and the others is like arguing with an answering machine, ure always gonna get the same reply, they have no experience (not in the haraam way) with women other than family members and are only repeating their mothers warnings(unfounded) about immoral women.
@ hussain87, trust me, when i was at uni, some of the girls in hijabs................believe me....not good.......open ure eyes and mind bruv, nothings black or white.
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Religious women never appealed to me...How could they, especially to a musician, like I used to be...
I envisioned my Mod woman wife to be full of grace and class and charm and wit and glamour and suave chit chat...I reckoned intimacy with them would be one of a kind, with nights draped in red satin and winds cooled by the heat of our passions...I envisioned the Mod woman to be so lucid in our relation that to hold her would be to drown oneself in amorous rapture and the results of our love's labours would be everlasting bliss...
And I envisioned the religious women to be someone harsh, illiterate, hard of heart and passions, rigid and frigid in her love and uncomprosing in her passions...Smelly, dirty with not a soft spot to nibble upon..
Time, however, is a jack...It is a great weightlifting equipment able to lift the lids off your eyes...
I have discovered that the Mod woman is a wench...A shrew...Nothing drives her impulses except her desire to be fulfilled for herself...Unforgiving, unrelenting, unhappy, what most people find to shut these types of women up is to fill their mouths with money ot have nothing to do with them at all...Just leave them to do whatever the heck they wish...Even then there is no guarantee that her blind and voracious appetite for self satisfaction will guarantee a happy home...Manipulative, egotistical, unhappy, uncompromising and ignorant about the tiny nuances that make a house, she is an emotional wrecking machine...
And I have discovered the beauty that the veil hides...The softness of speech, the humility of the soul, the eloquence of the words, the depth of perception, the wisdom behind the acts and the devotion and loyalty of the spirit...
truly, in ignorance man is always attracted to the ignorant...Not saying that I have become wise or smart, but it's an epiphany that has made me realise that knowledge is indeed what makes the heart moist with wisdom and love...
But it all comes down to knowing what it is that makes something as such...Like we say in Urdu, "Bandar kia jaanay adrak ka maza..."
What does a monkey know about the taste of ginger...It is a delicacy of an acquired taste...
Total devotion is incomparably priceless...
Looks like my thoughts. Great post Lajawab...... my thoughts have changed in the same manner in the same lines.....
Agree completely
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It isn't about hijaab or beard or anything like that because what Sara mentioned is correct we cannot solely judge someone based on the fact that they have a beard or wear a hijaab.
I think he is correct. Let me put myself in his shoes and think as a woman what would I prefer.
(A) A normal muslim guy desi who is educated with a great career, good looks, nice family (plenty of them going round)
(B) A practising grounded muslim man who is involved in the community, has deen in his heart, prays regularly, seeks islamic knowledge, wants to abide by the halal and the haraam, makes decisions using islam as a guideline bot morally and ethically, who wants to bring his children up in an islamic environment, and so forth.
As a woman I would want to go for option B. Because I know that in the long run It will be more beneficial for me and he will make the better husband by far. Option A has everything but option B has much more to offer, I call it the X factor. The passion for deen, the love for ALLAH swt, the greed for knowledge is an extremely attractive attribute in someone and I guess that's what LAJJO means when he says religious vs non- religious.
Oh and we are moulded by our views, our opinions and our eemaan, the hijaab and the beard come much later. The base of the person is inside. Yes Hijaab and beard are definately mandatory but then what is the point of having the outside without the inside?
Im all yours afeee.....:D
Like Codey said - clean up this thread mannn, too many haywired people who have deranged this thread.
Lajjjo - Hijab is a great turn on for me. I mean, it makes me respect that woman, & give her a lot more respect. I dont mean to say I diss non hijabis, I love them too, but hijab just wins in my situation.