Re: Religious girl vs. the Mod girl...
Talking from experience here Lajjo and I must say even though your writing is perfect in this thread BUT ur generalization just screwed everything. I have been a hijaabi and a non-hijaabi in mylife and I experienced from both sides of the page. I have seen Hijabi girls who cover themselves properly and avoid talking to guys and are good muslims and I have ALSO seen muslim girls who dress properly and don't wear hijaab who are into make-up and are classy but yet STILL know their religion more than so-called religious women.
There is a variety of different defination of 'MOD' girls that you just can't sit and type saying that Mod girls are for sure not good enuff to be a good wife compare to religious ones. Rest only Allah is the one who can judge on one's real faith.
How do u know that hijabi u r seeing outside walking prays five times compare to the one who don't cover herself properly. Its really easy to point on those who appears not too fit according to the picture that we sketch in our minds rather the ones who does stuff behind the screens.