religion vs rasms

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Re: religion vs rasms

@Sara516

^ u mean u two aren’t the same person?

Nope, there’s actually another Irish guppan amongst us. Shocking I know

@inspiron

But a ladies only mehdni with dolki and singing and dancing - no DJ or dance floor etc at home isnt wrong right?

That would be perfectly fine with me personally.

@inspiron

But some members of my fam are not allowing for any money at all to spent on like ANYTHING.

Its a Nikkah in the mosque and a home cooked meal for 30-40 people after. Bas.

This uncle of mine is LOADED - I know he is as he is my dads bro and basically yeah.

This puts pressure on other members of family who want to give people gifts or have dholkis are buy a nice dress for their daughter or have a yummy dinner for family.

Its so complicated.

I don’t think its that complicated unless you complicate it for yourself by stressing over what’s not even of much importance. Unki marzi wo jaisi bhi shadi karein. Having an intimate ladies only dholki at home doesn’t cost much at all so I don’t know why that would be an issue. Have you asked them if it would be okay with them? If it isn’t, I guess there isn’t much you can do about it. And yeah I’d prefer catering over home cooked meal on weddings too but if that’s not what they want, so be it. The food would still be yummy I hope?