Someone I know has been together with this very nice gentleman for a while now. They get along very well and have been talking about marriage. However, this girl is having second thoughts now because he isn't a praticing muslim as she is. He doesn't believe that one needs to fulfil their namaz obligations, keep roza and all that and now he's been telling her to stop being so religious. That is bothering her and she has decided to break up. He is heartbroken...and well, so is she, but at this time she feels that her faith is being questioned.
There are no other problems between them, even the families know each other and are supportive of their relationship. Her point is that he judges her on her choices and she does the same in return, and so the possibility if compromise seems low.
What do you think should be done here?
Though you haven't mentioned it, I'm assuming that the fasting she does is the Ramadan ones and the basic five times salaats. There is nothing very religious about that. These are just basic requirements. If this is the case, I don't think she should compromise an inch on any of that.
If on the other hand, she was keeping nafl fasts all the time, spent hours in tahajjud and other nawafil salaat, and he's asking her to tone that down, then there might be room for compromise. But the way she's doing it, I think she's done the right thing and shouldn't even give it a second thought.