Religion & matters of the heart

Re: Religion & matters of the heart

They're not married yet...if their religious choices seem to be a problem now and niether party is willing to change then I believe they should let it go.

I know it will hurt but its even more painful in the long run when you put in so much effort but the person doesnt change...because its who they are.

If this guy is one with a softer personality...one that is open to change...then it might work out if the girl is very sensitive to how she goes about doing it. Even the most moldable personality resists change if done the wrong way. She has to show him, be the example and help him learn from her. She cant pressure him to change...it wont work...he will not do it.