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& if people are so much concerened about their privacy issues then privatize your fb profile so that no one can find you even if you don't give out your e-mail addresses too. "Some" ABCD & BBCD's really have attitude issues hence blocking their paki cousins even if they care about you & wnat to talk with you .
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[quote=“5amra, post:589, topic:240447”]
Stop quoting me DEAR. **I don’t want to talk with you :)/**QUOTE]
^Yet you still did. 
DEAR is just as bad as hum tum and meri jaan. Must be a back-home Pakistani thing.
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What do your parents think about your feelings? Do your Parents force you to talk them on the phone? Do your parents tell you to add them on FB?
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How can someone who you’ve never spoke to care about you? I don’t block “paki cousins”. I block anyone who I think may chat rubbish about me. 
Why should I change my settings so that no one can find me? That way my friends won’t be able to find me and add me. 
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If country was not an issue then why OP specially mentioned about not adding “cousins from pakistan”
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If country was not an issue then why OP specially mentioned about not adding "cousins from pakistan"
MAYBE...now just MAYBE...she doesn't feel a connection with THOSE cousins....and they happen to live in Pakistan. Had they lived in the same country as her.....I'm guessing she'd still feel hesitant about adding them. I have cousins who were born and raised in the US...and I keep them at a distance......because I don't gel with them, nor do I trust them, nor do I care for the potential drama.
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Well as OP said that her cousins want to talk to her want to know each other but she does not. See Le Pakistan’s post.
Good for you if you dont block paki cosuins 
but OP specially mentioned about not adding cousins from pakistan hence my post.
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I know what my post may come across as 'snarky' but I am a very private person and to be honest I do not know these people, my parents are related to them, yes, but I don't know them and they can't take a hint. I choose my own 'friends/people i wanna talk to' so I don't like 'friendships' being pushed on me.
The 2nd profile things sounds like a good idea!
How long does it take to know someone , just a little gupshup. You created this account to do some gupshup you can do the same on FB. And yes you come across snarly.
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[quote=“redvelvet, post:15, topic:254924”]
Izzat aur pyaar raas nahi lagta he & it will not become bad just because you think it is bad.
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op: what do you guys usually talk about?
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[quote=“redvelvet, post:15, topic:254924”]
YEAH i know people & their attitude issues with back home people… & redvelvet is not as bad as hum tum & meri jaan
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5amra guppans mein phass gayee :(
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5amra guppans mein phass gayee :(
you mean. "Razia gundon main phans gaye."
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you mean. "Razia gundon main phans gaye."
No, don't twist my words. I don't see any Razia here and neither do I see any gunday.
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[quote=“5amra, post:15, topic:254980”]
You’re right. Hum tum and meri jaan are far worse.
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5amra guppans mein phass gayee :(
yesss..... well this is not first time ......."few" guppans have attitude issues & digestion problems ....... they have this ability of creating a fuss out nothing if they don't like someone :) .......
ALLAH bachaye meri jaan ke razia gundo mein pas gayi
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just create another id for them n block them on ur original one
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If country was not an issue then why OP specially mentioned about not adding "cousins from pakistan"
It makes you wonder .
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meri jaan and hum tum both are flirty word if you are specifically using it for female, but if two person are ok and their relationship allow them to use these word then i dont see any problem.
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I can understand the OP. I have SOME cousins in Pak who ...when you meet them...they're nice to you. But beyond that...I don't feel a real strong connection with them. Also.....based on some of their views/the comments they make about others/the tendency to sometimes manipulate and blow things out of proportion.....I prefer to maintain a distance. I don't have a FB account...never made one..never wanted to. My sister does not feel comfortable adding SOME (not all) of our cousins in Pak and even some people who live in the US on FB. And it's for the very reason that I've mentioned....and my parents understand. They don't see it as us hating relatives.....more like being cautious because there's a difference in culture/perceptions and the possibility for drama.
As for talking on the phone with relos......even for that I'm not gonna judge her. With some of my aunts/cousins I can manage a conversation more easily because I feel closer to them. With those that I'm not close to...it's harder to talk freely even in person. It's one thing to do it sometimes....but to be pressured all the time would get annoying.