Relationship with your spouse

[Femme_Fatale]

Re: Relationship with your spouse

Thats sounds lovely Fraudz.

[suroor_ca02]

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@Fraudz

Begum and I are the best of friends, confidants, supporters, cheer leaders, advocates for each other. There are people in your life that mean so much to you, I mean aside from blood relatives who else can be this close to one. Last year when she almost died, I just felt that the world was ending, I was walking around like a zombie not knowing what to do.

We have our differences, and different perspectives but that has made the 2 of us more complete people. begum and I are pretty close, we have been able to do our own thing but at the same time introduce one another to our other interests and passions. While she has become a car freak like me, I understand the difference bwteen mid century modern and art deco from her, while now she sits and cheers and Arsenal play, I picked up friends, while now she enjoys listening to kreaftwerk and daft punk, I have picked up more on Ramones and the cure. While she has become interested in desi food, I have become a fan of thai cooking.

meri aankohon mein meri aankhon say
meray sapnon ko dekho
meray geeton ki bikhri saanson mein
apnay naam ko dekho

This is part of a song I had written for her before we got married, this is as true today as it was then.

Begum, I love you..

Now make me a sammich, I am coming home..

this is so cute

[Verizon]

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@Fraudz

Begum and I are the best of friends, confidants, supporters, cheer leaders, advocates for each other. There are people in your life that mean so much to you, I mean aside from blood relatives who else can be this close to one. Last year when she almost died, I just felt that the world was ending, I was walking around like a zombie not knowing what to do.

We have our differences, and different perspectives but that has made the 2 of us more complete people. begum and I are pretty close, we have been able to do our own thing but at the same time introduce one another to our other interests and passions. While she has become a car freak like me, I understand the difference bwteen mid century modern and art deco from her, while now she sits and cheers and Arsenal play, I picked up friends, while now she enjoys listening to kreaftwerk and daft punk, I have picked up more on Ramones and the cure. While she has become interested in desi food, I have become a fan of thai cooking.

meri aankohon mein meri aankhon say
meray sapnon ko dekho
meray geeton ki bikhri saanson mein
apnay naam ko dekho

This is part of a song I had written for her before we got married, this is as true today as it was then.

Begum, I love you..

Now make me a sammich, I am coming home..

Frauddia bhai do you jump up and down with pom poms and frilly skirts?

[ek_Ajnabee]

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@Zalim Wadera

She took that food and preferred not to tell her hubby about it? She seems to have been taken away by the flattery and decided to keep it secret. The guy definitely at fault, wont you say the gal to be equally involved?

I think, The point of this topic is not to judge or correct others on the decision they made for themselves in certain situation in the past they had. I wanted to know even if some of us are lucky enough to have a perfect partner in our life, do we still have that baychen rooh in us who is hoping for opposite sex’s attention and interest in certain situations even for few seconds. I understand that it is wrong and disloyalty but we are human and we are not perfect. Please NO lectures on what is right and wrong and I don’t even care what you think of me asking this kind of question. But the reality is we are all wearing a mask and trying to hide real us, and why don’t we? That’s the way society is. After all, we all have to live IN here… lol. This is a time you shear your thoughts… (ONLY FOR WHO ARE IN SOME KIND OF RELATIONSHIP)

[system]

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Zalim Wadera - if i had a one to one chat with you and explained exactly why i felt this way guaranteed you and ‘larki’ would understand why i was more persistent in wanting to move to UK.

See i do consider hubby. He’s doing his Masters in England, he is fully proficient in the english language…he has family here ( sister and brother ), he has other cousins here, he has been to England loads of times and prefers it over Denmark and … witha little pushing he’ll be applying for a job here soon LOL

larki, in restrospect i wish i had never agreed to moving to a different country but until you experience something you can’t decide whether its good or bad for you.

ek ajnabee, shushhhhhhhhh… :nono:

[Fayz]

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@shakills

I was wondering how much you are close to your spouse? I’m not asking about love and respect that you have for each other. Do you think it’s a best friend relationship? Do you share your personal interest and thoughts? What I’m trying to ask is how close you could be with your spouse? Where does the line lay?

She is gorgeous…isn’t that what you wanted in the first place? Who cares about the friendship, personal interests etc…yeh tou shadi say pehlayki bataiN hoti haiN. Too late bud…Cut the shyt..drink the poison..yeh hi teri zindagi hai ab…zamana tou hai nokar biwi ka.

[hiccup]

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@Fraudz

Begum and I are the best of friends, confidants, supporters, cheer leaders, advocates for each other. There are people in your life that mean so much to you, I mean aside from blood relatives who else can be this close to one. Last year when she almost died, I just felt that the world was ending, I was walking around like a zombie not knowing what to do.

We have our differences, and different perspectives but that has made the 2 of us more complete people. begum and I are pretty close, we have been able to do our own thing but at the same time introduce one another to our other interests and passions. While she has become a car freak like me, I understand the difference bwteen mid century modern and art deco from her, while now she sits and cheers and Arsenal play, I picked up friends, while now she enjoys listening to kreaftwerk and daft punk, I have picked up more on Ramones and the cure. While she has become interested in desi food, I have become a fan of thai cooking.

meri aankohon mein meri aankhon say
meray sapnon ko dekho
meray geeton ki bikhri saanson mein
apnay naam ko dekho

This is part of a song I had written for her before we got married, this is as true today as it was then.

Begum, I love you..

Now make me a sammich, I am coming home..

[Mehnaz]

Re: Relationship with your spouse

^ Ditto

sigh :(

[Mr_Fraudia]

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@Verizon

Frauddia bhai do you jump up and down with pom poms and frilly skirts?

No Uncle, that is something only our President W attempted.