I was wondering how much you are close to your spouse? I’m not asking about love and respect that you have for each other. Do you think it’s a best friend relationship? Do you share your personal interest and thoughts? What I’m trying to ask is how close you could be with your spouse? Where does the line lay?
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WE ARE LOVERS :love: :sexy:
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^ LOL! 
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though i m not married , i already feel close to my hubby, as close as i wud be one day :love:
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I am very close to my husband. I can talk to him about everything, on the other hand he is quite and it takes him a while to share, but he shares everything with me. We got married after high school have been married for five years.Our relationship got better over the years.
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^dats wat i have normally noticed , hubbies dont let it out dat easily, on the other hand when a gurl gets married she feels as close to her hubby as none
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Well I'm not married but I still feel very close to her. I think I"m the one that lets things out more easily.
We were friends first, then best friends and now she is my spouse...so you can well understand our relationship
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Not that close normal.
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too much familiarity breeds contempt, too much of good thing can be bad, having said that i am not married and i am just crapping about in relationship threads :p
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not married yet but have a great relationship.. inshaAllah it will be even better after marriage.
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Define a great relationship.
And for those, who are unfortunately not so lucky in their relationship, what do you think is a cause? in your opinion where do see a fault? how could it be changed?
Do you think its you or your significant other? Please be open.
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Spouse??
Who has the time to afford one in this century?
Enjoy your life and let your partner enjoy his/her by not restricting her to you. If you will have one spouse then share every thing.
Relationship is the act in which two persons fall in love. Women get lots of stuff out of it and men loose balance of their accounts. In worst case, a relationship can lead to marriage. Relationships based on mutual understanding are fun to have. In some cases a relationship is just a descent way to mean ‘wild sex’.
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We're best friends. :)
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In my opinion in great relationship you should be able to tell about your spouse. If he/she is happy, sad or just annoyed because you or someone else did something.
It takes some time to have that kind of relationship beacuse in arrange marriage you have to learn about each other and feel comfortable around each other. Beside you have to compromise, sometimes one spouse have to let it go more than the other. Both have to respesct each other's families and one's family is not more important than the other. also you have to realize that now you have your own family and your sig other comes first than the rest.
I don't know if i was able to explain but that's my opinion.
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We are quite close and talk about everything under the sun. It took him a while to open up to me but when he did, now he himself admits that it was for the better. It definitely takes time. It took us over a year to become so comfortable with each other so don't expect a miracle over night :)
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^ agree that it takes time.
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we opened up to one another pretty much straight away.. but our circumstances were such that we wanted to point out everything bad we had done to scare one another away :halo: it backfired.. we talk about things from nothing to everything.. its pretty good so far, Alhamdulillah
having said that, I think it takes time and patience to keep the bond strong.. every relationship requires that, but i guess this is a lil bit more delicate
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im not close enough to my spouse :kaboom:
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somehow its the other way around in our relationship…she is the quiet one…
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well i think isnt it enough to be gud to her that she leaves every thing for u n writes her life blindly for u .so i think husband n wife should be gud freinds mature couple n they should enjoy one n others mistakes one should respect his wife's rights on the other hand she is ur respect she should know ur limitaions simple is try to understand each other n sacrifice......be loyal ...................................................