Relationship with your bhabi ( sister in-law) and dhulabahi ( brother in-la

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Re: Relationship with your bhabi ( sister in-law) and dhulabahi ( brother in-la

@amana

^ He does have to move out of his parent’s house when he marries, unless the house has a separate kitchen, bathroom, bedroom, and sitting area with locks for his wife. It is his wife’s Islamic right to separate accomodation, and if she chooses to forfeit that, then fine, otherwise her husband is depriving her of her rights, and will have to answer to Allah (swt) for it. If they choose to stay, his wife has to observe hijaab and proper adaab in front of her husband’s brothers.

**The reason for the hadith “the in-laws are death” **is because the “joking” and “flirtatious” relationship has the potential to lead to something more serious.

actually he doesnt HAVE to move…it all depends on the living situation and the wife’s level of comfort.

going back to that hadith…it doesnt say the “in-laws are death” even though some would like to think that …it says that the “brother-in-law is death”…that hadith just simply means that one should be wary of their BIL just like one is wary about death because you can get too close to the BIL since you are always around him.

I dunno…I’ve always thought about my BIL’s as my brother’s but not everyone may see their BIL that way. fact remains…they are not mehrem!