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whats wrong wiht community college students. :)
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Sara, you are so much higher in my esteem than any harvard grad especially this one here regardless of how many condos one owns. You probably work harder. You just made different choices. I wish this guy's mentality wasn't the norm. Girls like you are in college and doing really well for themselves. You just didn't choose the same road.
Too bad your husband doesn't have a condo set aside with your name on it.
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Thanks.
I didnt go to a community college btw. (not that there's anything wrong with that) :)
Pak-one, let's backtrack to your posts. You are insulting women who do work. You are implying that they will never get married. You imply their lives are imbalanced. You imply working women can't possibly ever be as good as your mother. You imply that what your mom does for you, someone with a job could not do.
Moreover, you do not realize in your arrogance that there are men who will NOT take good care of their women and that by demonizing women who work for some security, you are plunging women (you know the rest of us "down here") into further destitution.
You may have achieved a lot with your life but in that process you are disconnected with the reality wome live. Women should work. Women should protect their futures. And if that's being a feminist then I don't know what is.
I am not insulting women who work, its their preference. I am not implying that they will never get married, I'm sure that many guys want working women etc. 9 out of 10 times you are basing these things on implications. I am praising the women who don't work, my mum, and the traditional girls - that does not automatically put down the other side.
Women have every right to work or not work, it's a personal decision based on the family level and Islamically it is totally permissible. I keep my preferences and will treat my girl like a princess. If other men mistreat women, I will call them out or shame them, but you can not impose preferences or stop me from praising women who are pretty much keeping our traditional values intact by looking after the home, making sure that the kids are brought up well.
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So wrong. That statement covers for anyone who is going to community college here. Not that there are many. They usually just stick to cafe.
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Pak-one the you should make haste and edit your previous statements before people see what I'm referring to.
Did I come into the wrong thread? nowhere do i see anyone bragging about what school they went to or that others who went to community college are somehow beneath them.
Sara, what I can say? If people WANT to talk about me, then that’s their choice. For the record, I have never put down a girl who is working, anyone going to community college, not making enough money, all I have said is that it is MY preference to marry someone who will be a stay at home mum. I don’t think that having a solid education, or even work experience while she was single detracts from her ability to be a stay at home mum, it strengthens it. This is a life decision that really only applies to the girl that I will marry - not to every woman who chooses to work (married or not). I hope that everyone is happy in their choices.
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Really? Is it your fashion to write things in a thread and then pretend you never said them? You used typical male tactics to put women in their place and now you pretend like you didn't say anything at all. Maybe you fooled people at school, but not here buddy.
Not going to happen. What am I afraid of? Some sort GS mob, an e-lynching 
Heck, even if people decide to ban me, no dirt off my shoulders, I come here once in a while to check out what my peoples are up to, nothing serious.
As for the girl, I just may have found my Pakistani Princess and it is only HER opinion that counts.
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^ theres about a dozen adn a half "princesses" here, u gotta be more specific ;)
^ theres about a dozen adn a half "princesses" here, u gotta be more specific ;)
Oi Sara, I think of you as a little sister but come on, give pak-one a little credit: She would not be here :D
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yeah im probably ure age or older.
and i already have a big bro. thanks :D
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^
Hmm that could be possible and slightly awkward then :)
Sara, what I can say? If people WANT to talk about me, then that's their choice. For the record, I have never put down a girl who is working, anyone going to community college, not making enough money, all I have said is that it is MY preference to marry someone who will be a stay at home mum. I don't think that having a solid education, or even work experience while she was single detracts from her ability to be a stay at home mum, it strengthens it. This is a life decision that really only applies to the girl that I will marry - not to every woman who chooses to work (married or not). I hope that everyone is happy in their choices.
I think you should post a disclaimer in all your posts. I for one would love to read them. Just as preamble.