Sara, what I can say? If people WANT to talk about me, then that’s their choice. For the record, I have never put down a girl who is working, anyone going to community college, not making enough money, all I have said is that it is MY preference to marry someone who will be a stay at home mum. I don’t think that having a solid education, or even work experience while she was single detracts from her ability to be a stay at home mum, it strengthens it. This is a life decision that really only applies to the girl that I will marry - not to every woman who chooses to work (married or not). I hope that everyone is happy in their choices.