Relationship/Married to a Feminist?

[pak-one]

@PyariCgudia

Pak-one, let’s backtrack to your posts. You are insulting women who do work. You are implying that they will never get married. You imply their lives are imbalanced. You imply working women can’t possibly ever be as good as your mother. You imply that what your mom does for you, someone with a job could not do.

Moreover, you do not realize in your arrogance that there are men who will NOT take good care of their women and that by demonizing women who work for some security, you are plunging women (you know the rest of us “down here”) into further destitution.

You may have achieved a lot with your life but in that process you are disconnected with the reality wome live. Women should work. Women should protect their futures. And if that’s being a feminist then I don’t know what is.

I am not insulting women who work, its their preference. I am not implying that they will never get married, I’m sure that many guys want working women etc. 9 out of 10 times you are basing these things on implications. I am praising the women who don’t work, my mum, and the traditional girls - that does not automatically put down the other side.

Women have every right to work or not work, it’s a personal decision based on the family level and Islamically it is totally permissible. I keep my preferences and will treat my girl like a princess. If other men mistreat women, I will call them out or shame them, but you can not impose preferences or stop me from praising women who are pretty much keeping our traditional values intact by looking after the home, making sure that the kids are brought up well.