Re: Relationship issue
if someone asking u quit smoking, doesnt mean they own u. it is true that it appear as a shock for her when she finds out that instead of being what he, he preferred to lie cuz if she was caring, so is he. he dont want to hurt her. doctors do the same 
the only thing she should have done differently is saying him that “martay ho marro, mujhay kia…wasay he dunia ki abadi itni zayda hai. tumharay honay na honay say is dunia ko koe fark nahi perta” since according to your definition guys like bad ass girls.
ps. if someone giving u advice, take it and look into it. no one is that important to be owned.