There’s this guy I reallly really reallly like. We were best friends, until I kept arguing with him for dumb reasons, but he always fixed everything, most the time, and I’d fix things when he’d be mad at me. So a year ago he promised me he’ll stop smoking - he didn’t. I found out got mad, ignored him and his texts. I realized I was wrong. Like I don’t own him that I can ask him or get mad at him for these things, right. So I apologized and stuff. While we weren’t talking he got closer to a lot more girls, which irks me. They aren’t close as me and him were but they are friends. I apologize and everything. He’s still giving me the cold shoulder. I made him talk to me, and he said I did nothing, and ya. Whenever I text him he’s chill and talks, but it’s not the same. He invited me to the movies - I couldn’t go. and then he couldn’t. So then I invited him to the mall, and well he said no, because I’ve rejected his offers over 2654465 times; he said he’s busy, and I know for a fact he’s not (up until Ramadan). I really like him, and i don’t want him getting closer to these girls… should I keep texting him? Like IDK what I should do. BTW he quit smoking.
I think you lost him. Just let him be for a while thats your best shot.
If you were really this close I am sure he would realize that its not the same with other chicks! That is if you did not misjudge him and if hes a rational and sensible someone!
You have lost him, but it doesn't mean you can't win him back. Or least try! Have you told him how you feel? Men aren't mind readers much to my disappointment...
Stalk him. And then if you see him somewhere out like at a mall or something, just "accidentally" run into him. But make sure you have a good story as to why you're there. That's important. Then start talking, maybe go for a coffee or a meal. When you're sitting with him, flirt a bit, but not too overtly. After a while, you could try reaching for something, and brush his hands with your fingers, let it linger for a bit, your fingers on his, see how he reacts. If he doesn't pull away, then he's into it.
What? Too much?
Oh well, you could always leave him be and see how it goes.
1: When a guy likes 'em and try to be close to them they act like ** we are just friends **
2: Even though they are just friends, they try to own 'em as if they are their GF's ...
3: The moment guy realizes their is no future with HER and lets move on .. girls start to feel that they lvoe the guy and now they want him back ..
God - Grow up ladies! ..
On serious note .. .. U have lost him .. .. Seriously, he find pleasure with other girls who doesn't say "We are just friends" .. why wud he come back to you .. ?? stop following him .. and make urself not easy to get - lots of other guys wud get attracted :)
Stalk him. And then if you see him somewhere out like at a mall or something, just "accidentally" run into him. But make sure you have a good story as to why you're there. That's important. Then start talking, maybe go for a coffee or a meal. When you're sitting with him, flirt a bit, but not too overtly. After a while, you could try reaching for something, and brush his hands with your fingers, let it linger for a bit, your fingers on his, see how he reacts. If he doesn't pull away, then he's into it.
What? Too much?
Oh well, you could always leave him be and see how it goes.
Oh, my delicate eyes.....why are you polluting GS??? :p
1: When a guy likes 'em and try to be close to them they act like ** we are just friends **
2: Even though they are just friends, they try to own 'em as if they are their GF's ...
3: The moment guy realizes their is no future with HER and lets move on .. girls start to feel that they lvoe the guy and now they want him back ..
God - Grow up ladies! ..
On serious note .. .. U have lost him .. .. Seriously, he find pleasure with other girls who doesn't say "We are just friends" .. why wud he come back to you .. ?? stop following him .. and make urself not easy to get - lots of other guys wud get attracted :)
i think desi guys too freak out when girls approach them, especially if the girls try to care of them.
