Re: relationship dillema
I’ve heard that Islamically, one shouldn’t tell anyone of his/her sins. So this being the case, OP shouldn’t feel obliged to tell. It was her past, she should leave it between herself and Allah.
As for the guy - let him say whatever he wishes, you just deny it all. If people in the community know their ways, then they will think little of what the guy and his family have to say anyway.
Having said all of that, the only thing you have to be careful of is when you do eventually get married. I’m not sure if things do recover down ‘yonder’ as Theorist put it, but if they don’t, you could be in some trouble.
So, you could do either of the following:
I’ll keep you in my duas, I really hope the best for you. And to be honest, we all mess up in one way or another, it’s how we deal with it that matters.
wonderful advise …
every1 do mistakes tht didnt means tht u hav to do it over n over again … forget the past n start a new life with new motivation … jst do pray n repent for ur sins n do sachii touba , May Allah help u to get over this issue n help to to b on the right path Ameen
