Re: relationship dillema
dude
in all logical sense if she tells her parents now they will be shocked upset and what not, but they will keep it to themselves firstly and secondly if they are reasonable enough they will plan ahead accordingly
but in your case when this matchmaking in going on between her family and some guys family and if she reveals it at that time, not only her parents will be more shocked (as to why she hid it for so long) the news will spread in the community damaging her character, her parents, her sisters. and on top of the possiblity of that guy rejecting her, his family will know and they will tell everyone they meet… get my point??