can some1 guide me what is realtion b/w finace and finacee in islam it doesnt exits ..so how we treat each other… if one is caring and giving her time but from otherside its not showing any concern i think its rite time when we can understand each other but im confused these days dont know waht to do he is not givivg any response if i msg then he msg me otherwise there is msg from him etc
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Is He a Molvi ?
Is this engagement arranged?
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no relation, still na mehram, he has no right upon you and vice versa....nothing
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ok thnks ..but i have seen alot of them are talking with each other and went ouside etc
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^alot of them are talking/ hanging out even without engagement... that doesn't make it halal or permissible in Islam.
If you ask as per Islam, talking and hanging out with fiance is not allowed. If you are liberal enough, you can go to any limit during your engagement period. Its upto you and the values which you follow which make you decide your behaviour during your engagement period.
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I miss the good ol' days. Back then, fiance and fiancee never talked until the wedding and it was considered a norm.
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:halo: OK…
To OP
People usually talk to their fiancee or fiance to understand each other but hanging out is not necessary to understand each other… but it is your choice… there is no hard and fast rule.
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what to do if my fiance dont want to talk with me before wedding i getting tensed due to this negative thought come in my mind he used to talk with me but from 1 2 weeks he is not answeing my phone my msgs dont know what to do i pray to ALLAH also plz pray all will be fine INSHALLAH
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You can ask him reasons for his behavior and If he does not want be talk or exchange txts before marriage, I would suggest, just leave the poor guy alone.
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If he was talking to you before and he's suddenly stopped, then that is slightly weird. So to clear any confusion, you should ask him why he isn't replying to you.
As for your question, I guess your asking whether there should be communication between fiance and fiancee. In which case Ashy has summed it up well. And anyways, just because society does one thing, it doesn't mean you have to do the same.
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no relation, still na mehram, he has no right upon you and vice versa....nothing
This.
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Lets call it a connection and not relationship.
Personally I am not in favor of having mangni at all and by that I mean those 1..2..3..4 year long mangnis. It does not gain/earn you anything. Even from understanding point of view, if meeting and hanging out can help you understand people, divorce ratio in west should be near 0.
Now come to main topic, Islamically, there should not be any interaction at individual level. But now that you are engaged anyway, email exchange here and there, a occasional text message should be the order of the day. I advise all young girl and guys not to get too attached to **maingaiters. **Leave some converstaions, some interactions for the life after Nikkah.
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lal jhanda. 
you can hangout, if you are wearing hijab and he is in jhubba and holding miswak while he frequently says mashaAllah mashaAllah, you are looking bootiful. you may appreciate his beard. omg, your beard is sooo attractive. mashaAllah 
ok ok. just kidding.
Islamically, you both may date if and only if your only purpose to find compatibility in potential rishta. In your case, it looks that you found it therefore you are in engagement period. you may do nikkah and then cross those limits( ) which liberal people usually do during engagement period(you may ask to ashy2010, what she actually meant). if things dont work for you then there is always a halal option.
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Islamically, you both may date if and only if your only purpose to find compatibility in potential rishta.
Whhaaattt!?!? Any reference?
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Whhaaattt!?!? Any reference?
Reference:STA
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From a religious perspective you can talk and meet as long as you're not left alone or your guardian is present.. Even exchanging gifts is encouraged. An Islamic engagement signals the** intention to marry **ie you're both 'taken' and not supposed to consider anyone else (unless the agreement is broken)..
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Lets call it a connection and not relationship.
Personally I am not in favor of having mangni at all and by that I mean those 1..2..3..4 year long mangnis. It does not gain/earn you anything. Even from understanding point of view, if meeting and hanging out can help you understand people, divorce ratio in west should be near 0.
Now come to main topic, Islamically, there should not be any interaction at individual level. But now that you are engaged anyway, email exchange here and there, a occasional text message should be the order of the day. I advise all young girl and guys not to get too attached to **maingaiters. **Leave some converstaions, some interactions for the life after Nikkah.
This exactly. We do not do long, drawn out mangnis or nikkah without rukhsati in my family. Ghar ke barray humesha kehtay hain ke jitni lambi mangni, utnay hi lambay jhagray.
Obviously, I had a love marriage,, by choice, but as soon as both families met and approved the match, we got married...from baat pakki to marriage was 4 months.
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That is not true. You can’t date or go out with a member of the opposite gender even if your intention is marriage. Yes, you can MEET and talk in the presence of a mehram/guardian but that does not mean you can date. There is a huge difference between the two.