Re: relation of fiance and fiancee
From a religious perspective you can talk and meet as long as you're not left alone or your guardian is present.. Even exchanging gifts is encouraged. An Islamic engagement signals the** intention to marry **ie you're both 'taken' and not supposed to consider anyone else (unless the agreement is broken)..
But sometime, religion also allows to meet without any third person at public place (if intention is not dating but just finding out compatibility).
Re: relation of fiance and fiancee
Well socially, being "engaged" means you are going to be marrying each other but religiously speaking, there is no obligation.
Regarding how much communication...well I still know of couples who had never met each other until after their nikaah and are now enjoying a great marriage. But for some people, getting to know each other is important. If you bring religion into it, then honestly, I think you'll be in a fix.
Re: relation of fiance and fiancee
I miss the good ol' days. Back then, fiance and fiancee never talked until the wedding and it was considered a norm.
Its not still old ...
you can do it - if there is will
Re: relation of fiance and fiancee
tthanks for guidance.... there is nothing like that hangouts we both respect our parents and we decide if parents planning for dawat etc then we can see each other wise its ok...im just confuse how to undersatnd men thinking its very diffuclt to understand dont know ..something he doesnt like eg: sharing our conservation with any1 becz he also never share with some1, second he says muhjay mein bachpana hain thora sahi hojaye ga asiata aista...some times negative thoughts come in my mind why he is not talking etc he says stop thinking negative and this all things make him away frm me:( now i decide to change my self little bit to save our relation becoz my ego ,negative thinking is not much imp than our relation..
and yes u all rite magni zaida lambi nai honi chaiye humri mangni ko 3 months huaye although we know each other from last year
Re: relation of fiance and fiancee
to phir shadi kab hai. ussy say pocho ager ager bachpana khatam na howa phir woh kiya karay ga.
Re: relation of fiance and fiancee
to phir shadi kab hai. ussy say pocho ager ager bachpana khatam na howa phir woh kiya karay ga.
Tractor ke peechay likha tha; ya pass ker ya berdasht ker
As for u cancerian, these kind of things do settle with time. I remember during my engagements, I didn't like a few things. But they all got cleared up after marriage, n alhamdulillah, 3 years in marriage, we've never had an argument, never. So just be positive and think of the better days that are coming your way inshallah n pray to Allah all the time. Allah shakar khoroN ko shakar deta hey:)
Re: relation of fiance and fiancee
INSHALLAH yup im thinking positive now and thnks for these positive wibes :)
Tractor ke peechay likha tha; ya pass ker ya berdasht ker
As for u cancerian, these kind of things do settle with time. I remember during my engagements, I didn't like a few things. But they all got cleared up after marriage, n alhamdulillah, 3 years in marriage, we've never had an argument, never. So just be positive and think of the better days that are coming your way inshallah n pray to Allah all the time. Allah shakar khoroN ko shakar deta hey:)