rejection..

Lifestyle Relationships
1

how do you deal with it??

2

Re: rejection..

Have not really dealt with any such issue in past but my advise to you is "forget and move on" thats the best way of dealing with it !

3

Re: rejection..

A nice movie , ice cream , stand up comedy , a movie , etc . . . they all help . Remember a failure only makes you stronger .

4

Re: rejection..

rejection shows you a new path ... in every sense .. to move on .. a career change .. forgive n forget

5

Re: rejection..

only place i face it is on net:hehe: Never give a damn.

6

Re: rejection..

*itch and moan for a few hours. Then come to the realization you were too good for the other person/opportunity :snooty:

Eat a pint of your favourite Hagen Dazs. Curse the other person for making you gain an extra two pounds you didn’t need.

But after all of that, calm down, and come to the conclusion that the other person/opportunity would not have worked out in the long term. Say a namaz of shukrana and move on.

Oh and add an extra few yoga classes to work off the Hagen Dazs :hinna:

7

Thats how LA.

8

Re: rejection..

LA implies?

9

Re: rejection..

It's easier to move on from the rejection if you've invested little emotional energy into the person/situation. The more you cared...the longer you cared...the more it hurts.

With time, the intensity of that pain lessens. But in order for that to happen, you have to help yourself move forward. Focus on the positive in your life......maybe think about the negative aspects of the person/situation from which you received the rejection....be grateful for what you hav...pursue your goals...spend time with those that sincerely care about you, etc.

It may also help you to move on if you receive closure from the person...but that's not always person (lost contact, or the person will never admit to hurting you or being wrong)....and so you try to provide your ownself with closure. And your try to remind yourself that life is already short to begin with...and by dwelling over someone that doesn't care for you much....you're losing minutes that could have been spent in a more positive way....thus making your life even shorter.

10

Re: rejection..

Redness..

11

Re: rejection..

Jimmy Jimmy Jimmy Jimmy aaja aaja aaja aaja

12

:blush:

Redness told you to make feel uncomfortable. :frowning:

13

Accept it and move-on! Head to your nearest spa and make a detour to your closest cupcake shop and binge!

14

Icecream and a good comedy movie.... :D or coke and pringles (this is wat i did wen we lost 20-20 semis :( )

15

Jimmy is going to provide us with a realtime example of pursuit and rejection. He's chosen Red as his target, er, object of his affection.

Notice how he is stalking Red. She'll come back and demonstrate the rejection, then Jimmy will conclude and show us how he handled the rejection.

16

Jimmy speak: Makes no sense; but just go with it.

17

Re: rejection..

you know I have agree with you on that :lifey:

18

:lifey:

19

:omg:

I like this whole lab setup.

So excited… but you never know.. she might not…

this time around :frowning:

20

I am so glad you are banned from posting in health & fitness.