Rejected for being a "punjabi"

[Reha]

Re: Rejected for being a “punjabi”

@rx988

I can’t believe you are calling my hyderabadi thread obnoxious? where do you come off talking like that? aren’t you a mod? and if anything you made it obnoxious by continuously attacking me and calling it ridiculous, lame and things like that. My intentions were to just know a bit about Hyderabadi people and I think GS is a good mode to inquire about things like that. People should be able to come GS and open threads and not feel scared of you. I swear my intentions were not bad, I can’t believe I have to say that.

I actually detailed your attitude towards Hyderabadis in a post and showed you where and how you were obnoxious. I am looking up at the ceiling wondering WHY I am doing this but here you are:

@Reha

This thread was amazing…lol.

And what I said was nothing less than the truth. Your intentions could have been to build a mosque in Hyderabad…but does it matter?

Let me show you what I mean when I talk about sensibilities and why someone would get offended:

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Originally Posted by rx988 http://www.paklinks.com/gs/images/buttons/viewpost-right.png
@ bao: **so true they do speak louder, I have noticed that too on few times I have met some hyderbadis, but I think its true for the females not the males. **
sorry folks this is just a informative thread, don’t mean at disrespect.
can’t believe I have to put disclaimers, why am I so scared all of a sudden.

See in my experience with Punjabis…the loud factor is with both male and female. But how would you know who’s louder when you’re not aware of how loud you are?

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Originally Posted by rx988 http://www.paklinks.com/gs/images/buttons/viewpost-right.png
do you feel alone when around so many hyderabadis?

Explain what you meant by this?

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Originally Posted by rx988 http://www.paklinks.com/gs/images/buttons/viewpost-right.png
seriously? why do they exaggerate so much?

Its not they…its all desis. Every single desi I have met is a master of exxaggeration.

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Originally Posted by rx988 http://www.paklinks.com/gs/images/buttons/viewpost-right.png
So they question do you think its ok to marry into a hyderabadi family?

what are your experiences as non hyderabadi

Why would it not be okay to marry into a Hyderabadifamily? Is it okay to marry into a Punjabi family considering they also have the same exact traits your friend is so afraid of?

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Originally Posted by rx988 http://www.paklinks.com/gs/images/buttons/viewpost-right.png
^ we once had hyderabadi people over at our house, they didn’t even bring anything lol. it was such a big party too and everyone atleast brought something.

@rx988

**^punjabis are awesome and punjabis are very good host.

If you don’t think your posts come across as condescending…then I don’t know does. Now in your mind, you’re thinking “what? she’s taking this the wrong way!” Putting it the right way is YOUR job…not anyone else’s.

Your intentions don’t matter…your form of expression does. We have no idea nor is it our business to find out what you meant…its what you put out there that matters. And what you put out was not very nice…now if you think you deserve a gold star for this at the end of the day…its just not gonna happen.

This is the truth.**