Rejected for being a "punjabi"

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Re: Rejected for being a “punjabi”

@Reha

yup…my sentiments exactly…

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I never thought about these things until after I got married but it does help to have similar background and language. But then again…agar gora/gori hoti to log jaan laga ke mehnat karte hein to make it work.

I don’t know…personally I find this no different from that obnoxious thread about Hyderabadis being bad at mehman nawazi.

The other thing is…you’re in the rishta game girl…understand that people WILL reject you for whatever they feel is important. Be ready and be tough about it. It could be your weight, looks, height, education, caste, background and yes…even your language/ethnic background. They owe you no explanations and vice versa. It sounds harsh but its true…everyone has a right to find that person who they believe is their match…including you. Its not a bad thing at all…I’d rather be rejected than dragged into a family that cannot appreciate what I have to offer.

Is it bad that they rejected you based on your ethnicity? Meh…sure…but I doubt you would have accepted him if he didn’t have proper educational background or if he was white or if he was black or if he was not good looking enough. These traits also be considered superficial by many people who do or do not have them. Its not that big of a deal…brush it off and move on.

I can’t believe you are calling my hyderabadi thread obnoxious? where do you come off talking like that? aren’t you a mod? and if anything you made it obnoxious by continuously attacking me and calling it ridiculous, lame and things like that. My intentions were to just know a bit about Hyderabadi people and I think GS is a good mode to inquire about things like that. People should be able to come GS and open threads and not feel scared of you. I swear my intentions were not bad, I can’t believe I have to say that.