Regretting breaking up....?

[pk2010]

Re: Regretting breaking up…?

@Reha

Yup, koi chahey to kya kuch nahin karsakta hai doosray ke liye. Lekin chahna zaroori hai.

B is lost in thought because A did the disappearing and left her with no closure. Thats why. A never really explained himself or tried to give a healthy ending to the relationship.

Had B done the disappearing, these questions would be coming from A’s side. Its normal and quite natural to question.

B has to put an end to this…she needs to throw away all reminders, delete emails, texts, change her # if needed and completely disconnect herself in order to heal. She HAS to otherwise she WILL ruin her life.

Find hobbies, charities, volunteer work, etc. In my most difficult times, I noticed helping others helped me too. Something about it gives you the strength to deal with whatever life throws your way.

Its very strange…you just forget whatever has happened for a moment and then there comes a time when you dont think about it at all. Try this…go somewhere and offer your time and help to someone who needs it.

Thanks Reha,
B has deleted all msges etc ages ago. but its whats in the mind that is important. How does one get rid of the memories that are embedded deep in the mind and soul of someone?

B does still have a life - she goes out, gym, work, with friends and has a fairly normal life. But u know how it is - when she thinks of him, it comes naturally, an thats when she gets really emotional.

She does help others, and its when she is happy she remembers A. because she thinks how would it have been if they were still together.