Regretting breaking up....?

[Reha]

Re: Regretting breaking up…?

@Mabrook

Lol Reha u reminded me of one of my best friend. she used to say similar thing" mujhhay phone kertay tumhari ungli dukhti hai kia?"

Yup, koi chahey to kya kuch nahin karsakta hai doosray ke liye. Lekin chahna zaroori hai.

@pk2010

Hi, thank you for your advice.

B does her prayers as much as she can. She prays to Allah to make her stronger and keep her away from bad feelings and thoughts. It does help her through this tough time she is facing. Honestly these are really hard times for her, she feels lost, hopeless, and sad. B does spend alot of time alone. She prefers it that way in fact. This loneliness gives her time to reflect on everything that happend, and also to think deeply of A. Its like a disease.

I agree 100percent that PRIDE is holding back A to contact B. Because its so hard to believe that two people share an immense bond and in one moment they become strangers. This is hard for B to accept. There must be some difficulty A is facing that he is unable to contact B even as a human to another human.

I also wonder if A is waitng for B to contact him. But after the break up and the way it was done, I dont think B is in a position to make the first move. Remeber A told B to cut him out of her life. He told her to leave him. She fought back, but A didnt want to hear it.
Now how can A even think that B may even contact A? Its not possible. A should be the one to contact B.

What can the possibilities be that A even suddenly disappeared from B’s life? B is always lost in thought as to what reasons can it be?

Thanks Pukhtun…your message really helped.

B is lost in thought because A did the disappearing and left her with no closure. Thats why. A never really explained himself or tried to give a healthy ending to the relationship.

Had B done the disappearing, these questions would be coming from A’s side. Its normal and quite natural to question.

B has to put an end to this…she needs to throw away all reminders, delete emails, texts, change her # if needed and completely disconnect herself in order to heal. She HAS to otherwise she WILL ruin her life.

Find hobbies, charities, volunteer work, etc. In my most difficult times, I noticed helping others helped me too. Something about it gives you the strength to deal with whatever life throws your way.

Its very strange…you just forget whatever has happened for a moment and then there comes a time when you dont think about it at all. Try this…go somewhere and offer your time and help to someone who needs it.