Re: Regretful needs advise
I think your wife has the right to know. For all you know, she has been miserable, and has been putting up with your sorry self because she vowed to be faithful to this marriage.. if you're not being faithful, then she can walk away knowing that she did everything to make it work. And as far as the story about loving your wife and wanting to spend the rest of your life with her, I don't think that you really feel that way or you never would of done what you did.
You had your fun, now its up to her to forgive you or not.. You should tell her and let her make here choice.. that is showing some respect for her, not keeping her in the dark, lying like a dog. I think it would hurt more to be lied to then to give her this respect. No doubt she will be flipping mad at first, but she may forgive you..