Re: Regretful needs advise
why is everyone assuming the husband cheated on his wife? 
Maybe it was something else?
I recently came across a little secret that my dad has kept from us for a very long time - I personally haven’t asked him about it, but I really detest the fact that we were not told.
TNW is right - it depends on the wife - is she the kind of person who can handle the truth and move on? Or not?
Personally, I would tell my hubby/partnet/whatever the truth. The guilt can eat you up for the rest of your life and sooner or later it will come out.
But then again, in this world, most people are not easily-forgiving, and they can’t work through set-backs. So, its up to the hubby and how well he knows his wife can handle the truth.
The good thing is that he’s very sorry about it. And maybe his wife is the type that will allow for one mistake? As long as they agree that he doesn’t do it again?
Depends on also if they have kids - what else is at stake - that sort of thing.