Regret Talking about the Ex?

[Muzna]

Re: Regret Talking about the Ex?

@Sehrysh

I’ll be honest, my closest friends get the entire rundown of the situation - but it’s because they’re my friends and I need them to vent to. It’s great some people can keep it all inside, but for me closure and the ability to move on to indifference comes from talking it out with someone - koi’ee to pursanay haal hona chahiyay.

totally understandable…and this situation is a bit different because you are talking about “rishtay”…these are prospects and don’t necessarily fall into the category of either SO or relation; they are not someone that you are intimately involved with or spent years and years with..

and yes…we do need someone to share with…close friends are those that keep your secret…I was referring a bit more to those situations where some internal matter regarding the relationship is shared with all and sundry…

@yourfriend

i dont know what kind of accusations you are talking about but dont you think people put much more efforts in their second marriages as compared to the first one? …2nd time they really wanna make it work and try their best not the make the same mistakes as they did the first time…

yes…you would think that people make a greater effort…provided they have learned something from the relationship that failed…right? what if they believe that they other was at fault and they were the victim?

the reference that I made was an isolated one but sticks in my mind so it came out…it had to do with a physiological condition and could not have been altered with mere effort…