Red flags

[Deeba1234]

Re: Red flags

@PyariCgudia

He doesn’t involve his mom.
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He wants to talk to you late at night. **

He keeps promising his family will call and they don’t or they don’t sound so interested when they do call.

After he visits you his frequency of calls and texts decreased substantially.
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He chooses to see you when parents are not around.**
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He wants to come into your apartment - NEVER let them come in alone. **

i dunno after a gazillion rejections I am a pro at this.

Btw there are people who don’t have many friends there are valid reasons:
-moving around for education / work a lot
-long working hours
-and social media - people don’t interact in person anymore like they used to.

The bits in blue are very common in non-arranged situations..

Don’t think I’d necessarily call them red flags (especially if the couple are older) because a lot of people are doing these things and still going on to marry just fine, even if they’re religiously and culturally frowned upon..