Red Flag?

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Re: Red Flag?

@yoda121

Yeah they can ask whatever they want, if I deem it an inappropriate question or I get a hint that there is something not right, I have the full right to tell them to get lost, and the exact same works in reverse.

And no I most certainly will not marry someone based purely on physical attraction, that will be the very last thing on my list to look out for. If we were to take a percentage weighting of physical attraction, I would probably give it a 10-15% weighting. I expect the same in reverse too, I couldn’t stand living with someone from whom a significant attraction derived from the way I look as to me that doesn’t matter. I’ve remember watching a TV show several years back, apparently her husband had never seen her without make up on (WTH?)

Money does buy a lifestyle, but it doesn’t buy happiness (sounds cheesy, but true!)

You have the right to anything you want. You can walk into their living room in a Barney costume…you have that right.

But your ego has no place in the process IF you actually want something that works.

Money doesn’t buy happiness…duh. Financial problems are a reason why a lot of marriages break though so its something to think about. I don’t know why anyone would ignore stability in a rishta and not ask you anything. Your arrogance and refusal are red flags and no one needs additional problems in their life.