Re: Red Flag?
ok let me go a step ahead and take a shot at your gold digger thing
If girl’s life style is such that she has cook, maid, driver, $$$$$$$ and car all her life and she (and her parents thinks) that she will not be able to have a good life and relationship without these things, I’d say even then its their right to make sure guy is capable of providing these things. If guy think parents are gold digger then be it. Its better to not get into relationship and have CHAKH CHAKH everyday because of lack of financial resources then to make sure that there are enough resources beforehand.
I think they have right to make sure things that they (and girl) think are required, are available. If that makes parents gold digger, then so be it.
Personally I’d not endorse any such behavior of girl or her parents are I personally believe more on strength of character and will to put in effort but I’ll understand if they ask such question(s).
Purely out of interest what will happen to the girl if the resources disappeared overnight? I guess the parents tried their best? It will be a sudden shock to the system of the girl that’s for sure, especially if those things made her life “good”.