Red Flag?

[yoda121]

Re: Red Flag?

@inspiron

Have been through this process for years - these ARE normal questions in first meeting as part of the filtering process.

This IS an arranged marriage situ after all. Its not like you fall in love and compromise on many many things. Its like a girls parents or guys parents will chose the BEST they can find and hence a set of filtering questions to start with and then comes everything else.

Its not nice but its just what it is. Which is why I hate this process and am not going down the arranged route anymore

I don’t mind the other question, just trying to dig out my finances, as a first question, is pretty pathetic, I’ve got nothing to prove.

I guess it’s just the way you’ve been brought up at the end of the day, I know of some people that are constantly maintaining an image and need to prove to themselves and others that they are able to maintain this image, must be a similar bunch.