Red Flag?

[yoda121]

Re: Red Flag?

@Reha

You have the right to anything you want. You can walk into their living room in a Barney costume…you have that right.

But your ego has no place in the process IF you actually want something that works.

Money doesn’t buy happiness…duh. Financial problems are a reason why a lot of marriages break though so its something to think about. I don’t know why anyone would ignore stability in a rishta and not ask you anything. Your arrogance and refusal are red flags and no one needs additional problems in their life.

Asking someone how much money they earn doesn’t really indicate financial stability. Also I have no reason to see why a marriage would break due to financial reasons if both parties were fulfilling their respective roles islamically.

Also it’s not ego to not want to disclose you financial information to complete strangers, or even your in laws to be.
It probably the same groups of people into those money centric marriages with unnecessarily large mahrs and dowries etc. (other things we have zero interest in)

My family has never asked my BILs their earnings.