Recommending Rishtas

If you are not a rishta wali/wala, would u still go ahead and recommend someone of possible prospects for them?

I have heard its alot of headache cuz even if u make it a point to tell the other person that you dont know the prospect too well either and they can figure out more abt them on their own…even then at the end if god forbid something goes wrong in the marriage, ur ought to be blamed for that. So i see alot of people now turning away from recommending each other of the possible prospects. Otherwise earlier alot of rishtas were done this way thru family friends, aquaintances, etc.

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** Maham .. is this a follow up from ur Height thread:hmmm:…:hehe:
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G han :D

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** Mubarekaan ji :lifey::fatee:.. just vet the guys are all 5 8++++:hehe:..:k:**

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kis khushi mein? :khums:

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is khushi mein ke tum ne rishte vaala thread khola :champ:.. and all the guys are gonna be TALL :dhimpak::fatee:.. Yeah im in too then :blush:..:wink:

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KkkyA?

Lolz.

Chalo leave your list also, mein dekhti hon :snooty:

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I'd rather not. I don't believe in arranged marriages.

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Aur agar pyar na ho tu?

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why would anyone be an amma ji and recommend people for others and interfere in their lives. . grrrrr.

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wat if they r askd to recommend?

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^then why not! but aunties who just interfere without being welcome need to find a hobby! oh wait, they have no other hobbies.

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i agree :D

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i looked at this thread with a hope...lets see!

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Simple no... I used to think I could but I have learnt life has enough tension as it is and I dont want to end up being the cause of trouble for anyone else. It's best I keep out of things like this and reserve my force for good deeds worthy of my skills in other fields and pastures new.

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What Mr. Faris said!

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Just introduce (to those who are looking for rishta) and explicitly say with a disclaimer "check yourself..i will not be held responsible"

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Shadi karna farz hai kia?

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Farz tou Naheen hai, laikin sunnat hai, Nikah nisf Imaan ki hifazat Marta hai.

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Nai par it is a very part of life so most dont see not going for it as an option :D