Re: real scenario: So you
It’s so easy to talk because you’re a straight man, I think, you would not understand until you are in this woman’s shoes and see the situation from her perspective. If she had slept around and gone against all her religious and moralistic believes and found out the difference between a straight man and a gay man, studying each kind of man instead of being a virgin before marriage then maybe she could be a whiz at deducing this. But when the man we are speaking about is introverted and does not talk much, keeps his cellphone locked with a very secure password. He was an IT geek so he used different virtual machines with different operating systems on his computer that she couldn’t really access. Linux isn’t an operating system she can easily maneuver through especially when the password is a 12 character super password. When the man does not communicate a lot to her, it’s difficult to know what the real situation is even if it’s been years.
You can live with a person for years and he’s basically a stranger and then there are other people you just talk with for a few minutes and it’s like you’ve known them for years.
I agree with you. I don’t think guys can understand how vulnerable a woman can feel when she cannot understand why her husband does not reciprocate her feelings and does not even communicate about it. I agree with Deeba and Mezhgan. It is not necessary that the guy is gay. From what you say he has expressed feelings of liking guys either. He could be asexual or other reasons.