Re: real scenario: So you
Although it’s difficult to say for certain, what you mentioned does not necessarily mean that he’s gay. It’s quite possible that there is something else going on there.
The sister of a friend of mine was in a similar situation. She and her husband were married for 2 years and did not have a “normal” marriage during this time. She later found out that, prior to marrying her, he was already in a relationship with someone else and was quite serious and actually wanted to marry that girl and only married her (my friend’s sister) at the behest of his parents. Basically, he was not interested in her to begin with and never got over his ex. In the end, they divorced and he went back to his ex.
I think this is much more likely.. also him not getting back with her could just as much be because she got fed up or married someone else in the end.. doesn’t mean he’d stop wanting or loving her though..