Real Life, Real Issues

[misswrong]

Re: Real Life, Real Issues

@Deeba1234

Are u seriously saying it’s better if women don’t even go out shopping??

Why don’t u ask those women who have to ask their husbands for ‘pocket money’ like a child every time they need something if they really feel proud or like a ‘princess’.. If u really think women in those sorts of relationships have no stress about money u must be living in a bubble..

I dont understand…if you have to ask your husband for pocket money every time then your ego is hurt. when you have to work in office under some moron within so many ass holes/ *es then Your ego is pampered? You can listen to all the bull/crap and deal with office politics but hate to listen if your husband/brothers says anything??? If that is the most desired thing…you girls should not be taking " money making" & “career making” stress on your nerves. choice is Yours. you want to work like donkeys and can digest your boss’s crap or you would prefer asking your hubby / brother for “pocket money”

@Deeba1234

What if the husband abuses or cheats on her?? Isn’t it likely the wife will be stuck in that bad marriage cos she has no other option..

I know u said it’s father or brother’s responsibility but lets be honest how many times do those family members encourage or financially help a daughter who has gone thru a bad marriage or divorce? Most of them are too busy with their own families and don’t want the hassle..

I think you’ll find in the majority of cases those ‘independent’ and ‘self-sufficient’ girls are the ones who have been able to cope the best in those bad situations.. I’ve never come across anyone who’s miserable cos they chose to go out and get an education or work..

Being ‘self-sufficient’ is a negative

Sweetheart , like i said this being “financially nonindependent” has give us so many things. Including decrease in tolerance level and increase in divorce ratio. when we know “hum kisi say lay kar nahi khatay” then why should we bear with husband cheating on us or brother yelling at us. I understand, women should have skills, education , i am not at all against it but it should be kept only for those times when we have no other option. Shouq shouq main ya sirf apni EGO ko pamper karney k liay if you are working thats stupid of women.

If men have right of having 4 wives and also they have right that we should obey father/brother/husband then we are made “fragile” and this is their duty to provide us bread & butter and all the comfort. why the hell on the name of “independence” we are sacrificing our peace. And honestly i have seen this “aurat ke kamai main barkat nahi hoti”. True that is.

Women should work ONLY when they have no other option.

Men are made to provide livelihood & women are for house hold things. How hilarious would it look if u use Jet C130 for war and F16 for cargo

Sorry to all women…no offence plz…its just how i feel.