Real Indian Weddings

Ziya · March 23, 2011, 8:42am

re: Real Indian Weddings

oh god ppl…I think I am saying this like a millionth time here, please ppl understand the culture…a lot of india wedding are jigjig and colorful thats how their culture is…99% of the brides are not getting married jsut to showcase a designer outfit and some jewelry,all nice and matchy matchy… here wedding are so much more, they are about rasams, family, keeping their values/traditions alive etc, few girls I know wore their mothers or MIL’s wedding sari with some nani dadi’s jewelry and it doesn’t go well together, SO WHAT…why it had to fit a certain bill

in my husband’s nan-hiyaal, once the meet and greet is done, the girl supposed to wear all the jewelry she got as gifts before rukhsaki or end of the function/party, if she doesn’t, ppl who gave her jewelry take it as a disrespect and rejection of their gift, some of the pics from after gift giving are a mess, the big flowers that don’t look esthatically pleasing, the big naths…all are TRADITIONS, please try to understand the ‘ladofy factor’ and don’t fit all the brides in one frame or judge them according to one ‘standard’ that we paksitanis have in our narrow mind.
The brides in india are very diferent, from south to north, east to west…probably they are all loaded in their own way but that is the CULTUREEEEEE

I LOVE YOU DOSA CHICK for the above msg. You’re so right.