She was raped by someone she knew in college, it was the whole he liked her, tried to have a relationship with her but she just wasn’t interested in him or anyone for that matter. His way of overcoming the rejection was to have his way with her. He’s in jail and will be for a very long time I hope. It took her a very very long time to get over it, dropped out of college and pretty much became a loner until she managed to talk herself out of it. I don’t think she’s 100% over it because I honestly don’t think thats ever possible but she is not ‘damaged goods’ as he put it. She met the guy a handful of times and they really really hit it off, you know how they say theres a spark and you know its the right person? she said it was that kind of a feeling, her parents didnt want her to tell him but she insisted. What annoys me though is that I am willing to bet my life savings on the fact that he is NOT a virgin. So how is it okay for him to reject her when he himself is not ‘pure’.
Maybe it was his parents pressuring him to say no? Either way I think she deserves a effing explanation, not just a ‘I don’t think it’s gonna work out’ phonecall. The girl just poured her heart out, shared all of her fears with you and all you have to say is I don’t think it’s gonna work out?
The last thing a girl needs is to have men look down on her after one has already ruined her life.