Why would I not let my brother marry a black girl?? I'm marrying a white guy but am attracted to black guys as well (esp mixed-race black men, used to have the biggest crush on Jermaine Jenas lol), infact I'd consider any race long as there was a physical attraction and a spark or connection between the two of us. Assuming most of us girls would be angry if our brothers marry black or white or anything apart from desi if they're Muslim is a really backward thing to say.. Parents might have a problem with it (even tho it's becoming quite common in the west) but most ppl of our generation don't.
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My brother preferred desi but could have married whoever the hell he liked, we aren't living in the dark ages. If she was handicapped obviously he'd take into account if her disability would affect their day-to-day life (which it might not) but in the end it's **his decision and he'd know best if he's suited to her. My auntie and uncle have an adopted disabled daughter so I know how prejudiced some ppl can be (inc a few members of my own family) but at the same time luckily not everyone thinks like you.
oh dear:smack: i was talking about the society, not males or females…unless if u’re telling me that u think the society’s made of males only…
as for yr other questions then i think deeba here has said it all, my answer’s the same as hers, only that she’s said it perfectly, way better than how i would have answered:phati:
i’ll stress on something, what should be seen in a human is his/her inner beauty and not anything else…as they say ‘jab mia bibi razi, karega kya kazi’:D(or something like tht), so my brother son or anyone else wants to marry whoever they want to, then who am i to interfere? luckily for me and my brothers, in our family we have only one condition: the one we want to marry *should be a muslim…*race, disabilities or anything discriminatory doesnt matter, Alhamdulillah