A man is more than welcome to choose his wife and vice versa…just like a man is free to reject a girl who can be blind, missing a leg, etc (with no fault of hers)…so a man is free to reject a girl who is raped…its his choice to marry a virgin girl and so is a woman free to do so.
But if you reject a raped woman by calling her honorless or “be-izzat”, you are just sick and belong to medievial age.